In a few weeks you'll be headed back to school. Time for new classes, new teachers, and maybe new friends. I'm going to be posting about friends for the next few posts. Let's start with an easy quiz.
Are you a good friend?
Try the true/false quiz below to see how your friendship skills measure up!
T F 1. I try to be friendly to everyone.
T F 2. I keep secrets no matter what.
T F 3. When my friends gets something really cool that I
don't have, I wish I had it instead.
T F 4. I try to imitate (act like) how my friends act.
T F 5. I listen when I am interested in what my friend is
T F 6. I try to think of my friend’s needs more than my own.
T F 7. If I think my friend is doing something wrong, I tell
her even though it might hurt her feelings.
T F 8. I only like to do things with my best friend.
T F 9. When my friend and I have a fight we talk about it right
T F 10. My friend and I encourage each other to live out our
faith every day.
Check your answers with the ones below to see how they compare.
1. True. Proverbs 18:24 says A man that hath friends must show himself friendly... The best way to make friends is to be friendly to everyone and ask God to bring the right friends to you.
2. False. If you get a reputation for telling secrets, no one will trust you. BUT sometimes you have to tell a secret. A friend might tell you that he is going to do something that will hurt himself or others. In such as situation you need to talk to your parents or a teacher and let them decide what to do.
3. False. We need to follow Christ’s example in thinking of others before ourselves. Philippians 2:3 says, When you do things, do not let selfishness or pride by your guide. Be humble and give more honor to others than yourselves.
Jonathan was a good example of this. Jonathan, as King Saul’s son, should have been the next king. When Jonathan heard that God had chosen David to be the next king, he could have been very jealous. But he wasn’t. He accepted God’s choice and was happy for David. Check out 1 Samuel to read more about Jonathan and David.
4. False. Be yourself. Ephesians 2:10 says: God has made us what we are. In Christ Jesus, God made us new people so that we would do good works. God had planned in advance those good works for us. He had planned for us to live our lives doing them. You are God's one of a
kind masterpiece. God has something special for you to do for him. So just be the you God made you to be. A true friend will like you for who you are.
5. False. Be a good listener all the time. After all, you want friends to listen to you.
6. True. Philippians 2:4-5 says, “Do not be interested only in your own life, but be interested in the lives of others. In your lives you must think and act like Christ Jesus.” God wants us to think about others just like Jesus did.
7. True. This isn’t always easy but as Proverbs 27:17 says, Iron can sharpen iron. In the same way, people can help each other. Friends can help each other by talking about what’s right and holding one another accountable for doing it.
8. False. It’s nice to have a close friend, but it’s not good to be with only one friend. Shutting others out can hurt their feelings, and you might be missing out on other great friendships.
9. True. Keeping your feelings bottled up inside of you just makes you feel worse. Ephesians 4:26 says, When you are angry, do not sin. And do not go on being angry all day. Talk about your problems right away. That’s the best way to keep them from getting worse.
10. True. Friends can help each other live the way God wants them to live, and that’s the best things friends can do for one another!
The Scripture for #1 is from the King James Version of the Bible. The rest are from the International Children’s Bible.